Should you write with curse words?
This question gets bandied about in writing groups far too often. It seems like people are afraid to break certain rules, and cussing is just one of those things where readers either don’t care at all or they care A LOT.
And the people who care A LOT about cussing tend to get super offended by it.
So I see where there might be a bit of trepidation when it comes to putting cuss words in your book.
So, should you do it?
It kinda depends. The answer for me and my books is… Fucking go for it. Lol.
But that answer might be different for you. Which means we have to get back to that “It depends” part.
First and foremost, what age group are you writing for?
I write books meant for adults, so it’s no problem for me.
But your book is going to be a hard sell if you drop a bunch of F bombs in a children’s book.
Unless it’s a “kid’s book” that’s actually meant for adults. Like “Go the Fuck to Sleep” by Adam Mansbach. Then, it works.
YA isn’t real big on cursing either. Despite the fact that most people reading YA novels frequently use those words, within typical guidelines for that age range, cursing is to be kept to a minimum.
As always, there are exceptions to the rule. Ellen Hopkins might use some cuss words, I don’t remember. It’s been a bit since I read her books. But she tends to go for the gritty depictions of real life struggles that teens face, so cuss words make sense in her books.
You should also consider your genre and the conventions within it.
Christian fiction isn’t going to have curse words. If they appear, it might be a little slip on the worst day of the MC’s life, and it probably won’t be any worse word than “crap” or “damn.”
And the character will likely regret it.
Unless it’s a reform/convert type book, in which case there might be a flashback, but even then, the foul language would likely be kept to a minimum.
Aside from those things, you should also consider setting. If you’re writing a book set in the Vatican 200 years ago… There probably won’t be any cussing.
Whereas, if you’re writing something in a modern day bar and you don’t include cussing, the flattened dialogue will almost certainly break the immersion.
But do you want to know the most important things to consider when deciding whether your books should include cussing?
It isn’t whether it’ll be embarrassing if your family or spouse or close friend reads it. That should never dictate what you write.
It isn’t whether the market hates or loves it, because there’s a market for just about everything.
The two most important things to consider are:
1. Is it right for the character?/Does it line up with their personality?
2. Is it right for your author voice?
If the answer is yes, then damn the doubt. Damn the fear of what others will say. Write those fucking cuss words.
If the answer is no, leave them out.
It’s really that simple. If it’s the right thing to do for you and your book, just fucking do it. If it isn’t right for you and your book, then don’t.
Give yourself the freedom to write your book the way it needs to be written.
Just be sure to market the book accordingly so you don’t get people who want grit reading clean books or people who expect clean books reading stories that have been carpet bombed with cuss words.
Keep reading. Keep writing.